I aint sayin she a GOLD digger...

Fashion to Figure Golden Goddess Maxi Dress

As the Winter approaches, it is time to brighten up your day with GOLD, SHIMMERY outfits!!  An added sparkle can turn a drab outfit into one that pops!!  Metallic gold will have you turning heads and standing out in the crowd. 

Sparkling Paillettes Dress

Not bold enough to do a bold, gold dress??  Try accenting your outfit with a gold belt or shoes.  Gold jewelry will always add a subtle pizazz when done in moderation.  Don't go out looking like a '90s rapper with 12 large gold chains on, please and thank you.

Brooke Belted dress- Curvaceous Boutique

                      Forever 21- Glittered Oxford

   Forever 21- Crackled Metallic Leggings

                                                        Lane Bryant Gold Mesh Flat

You have the right to remain silent.. about your reproductive rights

I saw a picture on facebook today, that really made me think.  It talked about the Republican vote against abortion for rape and incest victims.  Now I understand that those who are pro-choice, myself included, are essentially in favor of preventing a life from being born.  But what about the life that is already here, now.  Do we ignore how it affects them?  Are the rights of the unborn, not quite human, indecipherable from a chicken, cluster of cells more important than the woman who is carrying it?  Rape is already a vicious and heinous crime, with memories that haunt victims for a lifetime.  But, to prohibit abortion, means not only do those memories haunt them, but now there is a physical, constant reminder of the day where a choice was taken from them. 

With the outlawing of abortion for rape victims, what will happen next?  Do the rapists get to have parental rights?  If caught, will he have to pay for child support? Can he petition for joint custody, meaning the woman can never put that day behind because she would routinely see the sick barbarian who claimed dominion over what was not his? What if the rape victim doesn't have health insurance (which Obamacare would prevent by the way), who pays for all of the medical expenses? By expenses I mean the ultrasounds, doctors, the person who administers the epidural, the nurses who watches over this hate-made baby. These expenses alone cost almost $20,000.  Who pays for the diapers, the formula, the clothes, the daycare, and extra-curricular activities?  Is it fair to make a woman who did not want any of these things, be bound by law to pay for them? 

Not to mention, how a pregnancy can affect other aspects of a woman's life.  Pregnancy is taxing on the body.  And pregnancy and giving birth are not 100% safe.  Even though, it is a small percentage of women who die from giving birth, the risk is still there.  More importantly, pregnancy is exponentially more dangerous on a child.  By child, I don't mean a 15 or 16 year old girl, I mean the little girl who is still in elementary school, with pig tails in her hair.  To have a girl on the cusp of young adulthood, be forced to give birth is unbelievable cruel.  Not only is her innocence lost, but so is her hope of returning to a somewhat normal life.

Now many would say that adoption is always an option.  Those who have never had to make this decision should close their mouths now.  In the midst of coping with having your most inner and sacred part of you ripped to shreds by an uncaring monsterous degenerate and dealing with the physiological and psychological changes of pregnancy, you must now make the hardest decision of your life: to give away your child.  No one can understand the gravity of that thought unless they have had to make it themselves.  Some may ask how is adoption a harder decision than abortion.  To hold your child, to hear it cry, wrap its hand around your finger and then hand your baby to a stranger... is more than one can bear.

I think the Republican ideology to ban abortion for rape and incest victims is incredibly insensitive and demoralizing, stemming from a fabricated delusion of self-righteous, right-wing religious bigotry.    I firmly believe that those who should make the choice about rape and incest victim rights, should be rape and incest victims.  Their voices should be heard, whether it be for or against the ban.  But politicians who are so far gone from the reality of the every day woman, should not be the ones who decide on a woman's reproductive right

Yes, love and cherish the creation of that hate and rage filled act that you didn't ask for and had no choice but to keep.. yea.. that sounds promising, said no sane person ever

Polka Dots, Checks, and Stripes..Fierce!

Torrid- Black And Multicolor Stripe Surplice Maxi Dress

For so many years, it has been the general consensus of the public that Big Girls should wear dark and solid colors.  Luckily, that ancient thinking has gone to wayside.  This Fall embrace all of your curves by doning them with Bright, Bold, Loud colors and prints.

One thing that I love about being a Big Girl is that I have these beautiful curves that help accentuate everything that I wear.  I love how the peplum tube top below makes the rise of the hip that much curvier.  And how the stripes above create angles as they flow and stretch over her hips. 

fushialove.com- leopard peplum tube top w/ green pencil skirt

RISKY BUSINESS JUMPER

msfullfigured.com

High, Low, Medium

ASOS CURVE Exclusive Dip Back Top With Double Layer

Wait...Didn't I just see that....

All White Party Lace Peplum $46 - MsFullfigured.com

I love to shop around.. mainly to find the best prices but also for which sites have the most unique clothes.  As I've browsed various sites over the past few weeks, one dress seemed to keep popping up.  I didn't realize it at first since it was offered in different colors and was called something different on each site but  HAHA!! Can't fool me though!!

Coral Lace Peplum Dress $45 - FushiaLove.com

It is surprising to me though, with plus size fashion still growing, that designers would not give retailers all the color options or retailers would not have all color options to give to their patrons.  At least the price point for all the dresses is about the same, give or take a few dollars, but with gas being as much as college these days, every dollar counts.

Sunflower Lace $42 - Fashiontofigure.com

I am absolutely in love with the peplum style too.  For those who have tummy issues this is a great, quick fix.  For me, since it has been close to 100 degrees almost everyday here, wearing a spank is just not an option.  So when I want to put on a cute dress but don't want the world to see allll my luscious rolls, a peplum dress, skirt or top it is!! I throw one on and BAM! instant figure flattering fashion at its best.

Lori Lace Dress $54.99 - Curvaceousboutique.com

This summer style dress is cute for a day party or a flirty date outfit!!  Every man loves a woman in lace ;)

Sheer Madness

I'm going shear crazy of the new SHEER trend!!  Why hide those gorgeous curves?!!  I like the idea of sheer since it's just a hint of risque.  You can show a little skin without actually having your body exposed.  It wasn't until recently that I realized that I have so many sheer tops!! I love them all; from the neon trend to the high-low concept... the sheer makes all of them look fab!  Just don't forget to have the proper under garments ladies, since it is see through!

Forever21.com

 

Mesh Yoke Bodycon Dress

ASOS CURVE Exclusive Top With Cowl Neck

Fashiontofigure.com

Goody Blouse with Buttons

Summer Heat

So summer is not cuffing season.. so how do you keep your love life as sizzling as the hot July nights?

Make a Splash this Season

This summer, make your mark by wearing the trendiest, curve loving outfits you can find.  Don't let summer sneak up on you and your not prepared to be the fierce, savvy chick you are!  This summer, show some skin but don't get burned!

simplybe.com- bandeau

alwaysforme.com

alloy.com- paris blues colored denim short

Macys - Ray Ban Aviators

Becca Etc - Color Scheme

barefeetshoes.com- lace-up gladiator

The Little Black Legging...

Me!!! With my Animal Print leggings from Torrid

Yes it is the Era of the Leggings!!!  Big girls have been wearing them for years and skinnty girls have just realized why!  They are comfortable beyond comfortable.  Now leggings will show every nook and cranny, every dimple and wrinkle, but hey that's ok!! Rock them anyway!!  Show off your curves with a variety of legging patterns, from animal print to the solid black.  Solid black goes with everything.  But be careful, if you are bootylicious (yes, I said it) like me; you have to be careful that the material doesn't spread too thin in the back and people end up being able to see your Vikkis!! Sadly, I found this out the hard way.  Luckily, another awesome trend is in style now and that is the tunic.  It will be your best friend if you have the peek-a-boo issue.  So grab your favorite shirt and heels and throw on a fierce pair of leggings.

curvaceousboutique.com- liquid leather leggings

Look for leggings in unexpected places... Like Victoria's Secret.  Yes the model below is super skinnty but I've bought a pair of their yoga leggings before and they are the best fitting yet.  And they are thick so I din't have to worry about it playing peek-a-boo.  Vikki's run up to sizes 16-18, but with the extra give of the spandex you might be able to go higher

Victoriassecret.com- Yoga Legging

Torrid.com- Santa Fe Legging

Summer Blues

This summer is going to be a HOT one!!  So stay cool with some of these cool shades of blue.


Nothing makes you feel better than having on a sexy, curve hugging dress when you step out for the night.  This dress accentuates every curve!!  I love the ribbed effect on the dress that synches the waist and flares the hip!! You'll stop traffic with this one ladies.

Igigi by Yuliya Raquel

Plus Size Renata Dress

When the sun is at its peak, catch a little extra sun with your back out!!  The subtle cutout is enough to grab attention without exposing yourself to the masses!!

Pinup Jersey Top with Ruching- Fashion To Figure

Fierce! Bright! Flirty!  Describes these shoes!!  Brighten up a dark outfit with these sky blue heels and feel like your walking on cloud 9

Turquoise Suede System Heels (Wide Width)-Torrid

                                                              This cute wrap around dress is conservative enough to wear to work and flirty enough to wear after work to hapy hour.  The contrasting belt creates a an hourglass look.



Envelope Electric Blue Clutch- Curvaceous Boutique

Add a pop of color with this Royal Blue clutch.  The animal print fad is still going so jazz up an outfit while still being able to carry your phone, lipgloss and everything else a girl needs!!



Forever 21


Check out this wristwear from forever 21.  This regal bracelet has charm and grace with the golden gems on the side.  You can make this a playful addition to your jewelry collection.

Joan Maxi Dress- SWAK Designs

Jumpsuit-Simplybe.com

Jump!! Jump!!! Into a cute jumpsuit this summer.  This breezy cool cobalt blue piece will be just what your closet needs for you to stay cool this summer!


Add a bit of spice to your nails with this pastel blue.  It's not too bright or bold, but not too dark or dull.   It's just right!!

 These royal blue pants are too cute.  Yes they are fromVictoria's Secrets so they aren't for the fabulously voluptuous woman but my cuvry chics up to size 16 maybe 18 can rock these pants.

VS Siren Legging Pant- Victoria's Secret

Dive into Swim Season

For too long, as big girls we have hidden behind big t-shirts, sarongs and other cover-ups. Don't end up with the farmer's tan at the end of the summer because you had everything covered up but your head and your arms.  This summer bare it all with chic, sizzling hot swimsuits.  Flaunt your thighs and hips with these figure flattering suits.  Get that summer glow every girl dreams of!!  

monifc.com- "St. Tropez" Fringe Swimsuit

Muy Caliente Mami!!  The color, the fringe and you, make this suit the perfect combo for a sexy day at the beach.

Victoriassecret.com- Kenneth Cole Plunge Monokini

This suit is in tribute to my girl, up and coming plus size model Erica P.  She will rock the heck out any bathing suit, not caring about anyone's opinion about it!!! You must be confident to this sexy monokini... it leaves little to the imagination.  But why shouldn't you.. asky any guy... bigger is better!

spanx.com- Long & Lean Halter One Piece spanx

What could be more perfect than a swimsuit made by spanx?  That same swimsuit on you!!  This cute suit has the girly ruffles we all love and the best part is that since its by spanx so it holds you and gives you that figure 8 look we all desperately crave!!

Old Navy-Women's Plus Ruched Slit-Neck Swimsuits 

For just a day out in the sun with your girls, rock this playful, flirty suit.  The eye-catching keyhole front gives just a peek at the goodies beneath without showing too much.  With a variety of colors, you'll find the one that's just for you.

24th & Ocean Plus Size Swimsuit, One Piece Polka Dot Swimdress

Torrid- Black Side Cinch Shorts

For the more modest diva, a swimsuit with a skirt or dress look can give you the shy, girl-next-door look.

Retro Chic By Torrid - Leopard Tankini Swim Top

If you play hard in the sand but still want to look like the sexy tigress that you are the mix and match sets at torrid will work great for you.